We should show more appreciation to others

Telling people you appreciate them is a simple yet powerful gesture. 

As a society, we have failed to do that many times.

Expressing gratitude strengthens relationships and boosts a person’s mood and self-esteem. 

On Saturday, I witnessed appreciation and gratitude from Clay County High School and former Lady Tiger coach Donnie Gray and his family.

Coach Gray has fought many battles on the basketball court.  But he is fighting the biggest battle of his life right now-cancer.

The legendary coach was honored with his name on the basketball court at CCHS. 

I was told he had no idea this was going to happen. He came to the high school under the premise that he was helping with an issue related to the museum's construction.

When he entered the door, he was surprised to see his children and grandchildren, and then he saw his name on the court.

This man, now 72 years old, who fought many battles on this same court with the enthusiasm and viscosity of a Tiger, broke down.

Over and over again, he said, “I never dreamed this would happen.”

It was a surreal moment that taught me an immediate life lesson.

We humans need to tell people we appreciate them and show them we appreciate the hard work and sacrifices they make for our community.

Acknowledging their efforts or qualities can make a significant impact, whether it's a friend, family member, colleague, or even a stranger. 

Coach Gray is now at the University of Kentucky Markey Cancer Center for further treatment this week.

Not only did he deserve this honor, but he also needed this.  He needed to know his work was appreciated.  He needed to know he hadn’t been forgotten.

A heartfelt "thank you," a thoughtful note or a verbal compliment can go a long way. They foster a positive environment and encourage kindness, creating a ripple effect of appreciation. 

CCHS showed Coach Gray that he was appreciated, and in return, Coach Gray expressed more gratitude for this honor than I can describe in words.

Too often, we fail to make those we love and care about feel appreciated.

I’ve been as guilty of this as anybody.  I’m sure we all have overlooked things like this.

But it seems we wait until it’s too late to tell someone or show someone we care.

We get so caught up in our daily lives, problems, and issues that we focus only on ourselves and don’t realize the impact others have had on our lives or community.

We don’t mean to be selfish, but we are. Think about that. We worry so much about ourselves that we forget what a simple thank you or a kind gesture can do for others.

What hurts the most? We do this to the people we care about the most: our parents, our children, our grandchildren, and our family.  

We don’t mean to. We get so caught up in everyday life that we forget…until they’re gone, and then we wish we had taken the time to do it.

I’m glad Clay County High School took the time to realize what Coach Gray means to our school.  Thank you to those involved for doing this and allowing me to witness something special on Saturday.  Godspeed, Coach Gray, in your battle!